Gemini Rising

Friends Visit

I had a nice visit with friends last night. One of my co-workers retired last year in August and moved to Tennessee. Another one retired in May 2024, but stayed local. She got a good working at the local movie theatre 2 days a week - just to stay active. The other friend is still working at the dispatcher center, but intends to retire next year. Me? I've got about 16 months until retirement.

My Tennessee friend, took a deferment on pay and won't start getting paid until next year when she hits 55. In fact, I know at least 3 co-workers who retired who took the deferment. Honestly, I think that's something you have to evaluate when considering it. They were just ready to retire. Our job is a lot of stress and sometimes you just can't go the full 25 or 30 years.

We went to a local Mexican restaurant - Las Rocas. My Tennessee friend was watching the Tiger/Mariners game on the TV. We had a nice dinner. A big part of the conversation was trying to keep up with menopause. My Tennessee friend is doing great. She's almost 55 and still gets "Fred." Fred me and my local movie theatre friend a couple of years ago.

We talked about HRT, weight loss - it's something I really need to work on, aches and pains in the joints, taking supplements, etc. I started a liver detox because I figure my liver wouldn't mind and I started taking something I hope will reduce cortisol. We'll see. It's not easy aging. I think we have to learn and research every phase of our lives to live the best ones we can live. I also think being physically active helps as menopause approaches/begins/ends because the muscles and joints need the activity.

I had a house Tostada, nibbled on some nachos and drank 2 margaritas. for a good meal.

Any thoughts on aging? Love to hear them!