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How their four-footed or other family members react to them can be indicative.
Plus, how someone acts towards one group of potential victim-abuse (pets, child, spouse, elder, minority, etc.) Is extremely indicative, as abuse is abuse, whether physical or verbal/psychological.
Hearing someone constantly telling a child (no matter the child's age) something that is derogatory about the child or someone else is a form of psychological abuse (manipulation), as well.