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  This week: Showing AffectionEdited by: Lilli Munster 🦇 ☕   More Newsletters By This Editor
  
 
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 | “Affection is responsible for nine-tenths of whatever solid and durable happiness there is in our lives.” ~ C. S. Lewis
 
 “To truly love we must learn to mix various ingredients - care, affection, recognition, respect, commitment, and trust, as well as honest and open communication.”
 ~ Bell Hooks
 
 “His affections, like ivy, were the growth of time, they implied no aptness in the object.”
 ~ Robert Louis Stevenson
 
 “Since we weren’t married, we couldn’t kiss each other in public, or even give one another a friendly hug to express our extreme joy. We risked imprisonment and being whipped.”
 ~ Marjane Satrapi, Author of Persepolis
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 | There are many ways we can show love and affection to our loved ones and we can use them for our writing; allowing characters to express the same with each other. 
 Sometimes when we write, we tend not to think beyond our own experiences and that can limit the characters’ actions and reactions in our stories. So, this week will look at different ways to show affection; while maintaining a ‘G’ rating.
 
 
  Physical Expression: 
 
  brushing the hair from someone's face 
  the forehead kiss 
  kissing one's hand, knuckles, fingers 
  hand holding 
  one offering the other an arm 
  nose boops 
  kiss on the nose 
  kiss on the cheek 
  resting your head on someone's shoulder 
  sitting side-by-side 
 
  Non-physical Expressions 
 
  showing up unexpectedly to show support 
  bringing a coffee, snack, etc. 
  a small gift 
  text message of a poem or link to a song 
  eye contact 
  helping with chores/tasks 
  giving sincere compliments 
  conversations 
  cooking a meal for someone, making their lunch 
  notes or cards 
  go for a walk together 
  stargazing on the beach 
 Get the idea? These are a small sampling of ideas you can use in your stories. But always remember to "show, don't tell".
 
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 | Comments received from my last Romance/Love Newsletter, "It Takes a Village"  . 
 Elisa, Stik-or-Treat
  wrote: 
 Not gonna lie. I read all these character archetypes and headdesked. Then again, I'm not so much a romance genre writer as I am a writer of (hyper) realistic love stories that cross heavily into other genres. My characters tend to skewer many archetypes. My protagonists tend to be either lady lone wolves (not something seen a whole lot) or haves a lot of competing passions that make romantic love at best a secondary concern (think a career or volunteer role in public service). Rivals are next to nonexistent. Love interests aren't even revealed to be love interests until halfway through (and often have direct conversations with the protagonist's spouse before this revelation occurs). The sidekicks tend to be a bit more serious. And let's not even get started on how the romantic love is often a subplot or secondary theme in regards to the plot. Oftentimes there's a bigger social danger that looms large and has to be dealt with first by all the characters.
 Clearly my interest has been to write stories about love with unconventional groupings (note I said groupings and not pairings) and a frame of mind more akin to someone who is middle aged. That last one is pretty strange since I'm not yet 40. I'm getting there, though. Maybe my brain has been 40+ this whole time.
 
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