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Romance/Love: July 09, 2025 Issue [#13224]




 This week: Witty
  Edited by: StephBee Author IconMail Icon
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1. About this Newsletter
2. A Word from our Sponsor
3. Letter from the Editor
4. Editor's Picks
5. A Word from Writing.Com
6. Ask & Answer
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“One cannot always be laughing at a man without now and then stumbling onto something witty.” – Jane Austin.

Welcome to July! When I think of July, Christmas in July usually comes to mind. And Christmas is always a season that brings a smile to my face. It’s a season of good vibes, and upbeat mood, and warmhearted moments. Christmas usually brings out the best in people. When I need a fix – a smile, a laugh, good vibes, and I’m looking for an upbeat mood, I usually check out a Romantic Comedy.

Romantic Comedies have a lot of appeal. They’re usually charming, lighthearted stories that usually make the reader smile and leaves them generally feeling upbeat and happy. It’s been said that “Laughter is the best medicine,” and I’m a firm believer in that. Some of my favorite Romantic Comedies are: Taming of the Shrew, While you were Sleeping, and Pretty Woman. Today, I thought I’d touch on the expectations of romantic comedies, themes, and troupes that make the genre so successful.

Question: Is "Romancing the Stone" - Action/Adventure movie or Romantic Comedy?


Letter from the editor

With a romantic comedy, the writer wants to present a light-hearted romance. And sometimes, when the world is full of stress, a light-hearted story is just what the doctor ordered.

Some of things a reader/viewer expects from a rom-com is how the couple meet – it should be cute, a little humorous or even a bit unexpected. Their reactions to the first meeting is what makes us smile. Another expectation is to watch how the couple fall in love. We enjoy seeing them on cutsie dates and fun adventures. We also want to see how the couple deals with adversity. How do they deal with tension and how does that bring them closer together?

Some common rom-com troupes include: “Based on a Lie:” how we met was a misunderstanding that just morphed into a great big lie that I just can’t get out of and it’s so over the top now, it’s funny/not funny. The “Ensemble” cast which has a little something for everyone. The “Best Friend” troupe were 2 people are best friends and perfect for each other but they don’t see it until they do!

Other troupes include: Opposites Attract, which makes me think of the movie, “When Harry Met Sally,” Fairytale – for some reason “Enchanted” comes to mind and Holidays – there’s nothing more romantic than falling in love during a major holiday season to keep the mood in the air light, and mistaken identities, (for example the good natured guy mistakes the sweetheart heroine for the ‘witchy’ replace the “w” with a “b” girl who he’s been set up with on a blind date.

Several popular themes in rom-coms include: getting a second chance along with the idea of rekindling that past romance and doing it over to avoid a previous mistake as well as the pursuit of love can be made easier because of the awesome friends you’ve got.

There’s a lot more to Romantic Comedies, so if you have any insights you’d like to share, please write in. I’d love to hear from you. For now, I’ll leave you with one of my favorite Rom-Coms

While You Were Sleeping   (Rated: 13+)
ASIN: 6304765266
ID #111424
Product Type: DVD
Reviewer: StephBee Author Icon
Review Rated: ASR
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Editor's Picks

 
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Him Open in new Window. (13+)
She waited at the train station every day, waiting for...him.
#2341461 by Cubby Author IconMail Icon

 
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Tortoise Love Story Open in new Window. (E)
A script for an animated short: two Galapagos giant tortoises fight over a guy.
#2043572 by katt Author IconMail Icon

 A Funny Love Poem Open in new Window. (E)
Love can be funny, but sometimes the truth is easy to decipher - a rhyming poem.
#2027366 by Tim Chiu Author IconMail Icon

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Money Can Buy You Love Open in new Window. (13+)
He reminded me of my one true love...and I 'bought' him for a certain price.
#1104344 by iKïyå§ama Author IconMail Icon

 All The Right Words Open in new Window. (ASR)
A meeting between old friends turns into a perfect date. Contest:190463
#369123 by the last cicada Author IconMail Icon

Mr. Christmas Elf Open in new Window. (E)
Julie gets an elf for Christmas!
#1627117 by StephBee Author IconMail Icon


 
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Ask & Answer

Feedback from my last Romance/Love NL dated 11 JUNE 2025:

THANKFUL SONALI Magical Days! Author IconMail Icon
Hallo! I put this comment on "Note: View this Note" but thought I'd mention it here as well.
I feel that plants speak more than flowers - they are living and they grow when nurtured.
Flowers are cut, and they wilt with time.
So - plants are more romantic!

I came here to make that comment and found you've actually picked one of my items for this NL! So thanks for that!

Honestly, I never thought about plants being more romantic, but you make a good argument for it!

Princess Megan Rose Author IconMail Icon
Flowers are a sure sign of spring. Some good items about flowers and I enjoyed reading everyone's comments about flowers as well as the Author's items that were selected. An interesting newsletter.

Thanks for reading, Megan! It’s always nice to see you pop in. *Smile*

Feedback from my Newsfeed questions 3 JULY 2025:
Answer 1 of the questions or both :

#1 - Why do you watch Romantic Comedies?
#2 - What's your favorite Romantic Comedy movie or couple?


AmyJo-Downhill slide begins! Author IconMail Icon
I do enjoy a Rom/Com on occasion. My favorite is When Harry Met Sally. It's a bit offbeat, but a fun watch.

🌖 HuntersMoon Author IconMail Icon
*Up* I'll have what she's having. *Rolling*

Kåre เลียม Enga Author IconMail Icon
Not quite the answer to your questions:

When I watch a rom/com I want it to be more than just two people hooking up. It needs another genre or three. Mystery? Culture? Fantasy? Myth? Supernatural? History is okay but I'm not into horror and if it's slash/dash violence? I'm outta there. "Freddy Meets Barbie On Elm Street, Part 205"? No way...

"He's Coming to Me" {Thailand) was promoted as a rom-com BL of a human and a ghost. But really? It was also a detective story, mystery and gave insight into culture, generational change (in food and music) and used family secrets as a plot twist. It's layered. Genres: Romance/Supernatural/Detective as well as Culture/Family/Death. It also has many comedic scenes but it's more of a Tragicomedy.

Annette-Outta Town-See Ya 8/22 Author IconMail Icon
1. They are cute, simple, and provide escapism.

2. Vincenzo

Wordsmitty ✍️ Author IconMail Icon
#1. Comedies are fun and make you laugh even if it contains that mushy stuff.

#2. Sorry. Can't recall any particular one.

S 🤦 Author IconMail Icon
#1 - Because they are fun and have some strong emotions and are the sort of thing to watch when you want to feel happy in more than one manner.
I will say that many stories labelled as "romantic comedies" are either not romantic nor that funny. I think the British do them better than anyone, especially when Richard Curtis is involved.

#2 - Favourite couple is Charles and Carrie from Four Weddings And A Funeral (1994). Favourite rom-com is Music And Lyrics (2007) (and, yes, I am fully aware it is from the USA).

Dave Ryan Author IconMail Icon
1/ When done well, they can be an entertaining way to kill a couple of hours.

2/ It's maybe a stretch to call it a comedy as it's really a sci-fi drama, but I liked "Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind". Jim Carrey and Kate Winslet were cast against type and it worked extremely well. "The Adjustment Bureau" with Emily Blunt and Matt Damon is another enjoyable sci-fi drama with occasional humorous touches. (And, for what it's worth, I've just noticed the funny stuff was driven by the female characters in both cases.)

Pensivity Author IconMail Icon
Without a doubt it has to be Steve Martin and Mary Steenbergen in Parenthood!

StephBee Author IconMail Icon is a 911 dispatcher for LAPD. Her story, "Mr. Christmas Elf," is a romantic comedy that will have you believing Elvis the Elf when he tells you what the meaning of Christmas is.





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