pain is pain

learn from pain cos' in the end pain is pain.

Our understanding of pain differs
to some it's loss,
to some it's heartbreak,
to some it's disappointment,
to some betrayal
the form it takes doesn't really matter
but we feel it regardless,
some are more intense than others.
some we can move on from,
some scar us for life.
there is no easy way to un-feel pain
even when we focus solely on the positive parts of our lives
or we bury it under all happy memories
it just stays there, dormant
until an event awakens it
which then feels us with overwhelming emotions
mainly pain,
then we feel it 10 times worse,
to some, it's like a tight knot in our guts,
one which makes it hard to breathe
some it's a knife in the chest,
mimicking a million cuts
to others that feeling of drowning
& breathing all at the same time.
I am of the belief than we all need to feel pain
at least at some point in our lives,
it could change our perspective on a lot of things.
weird right?
okay, ask yourself these:
what have you learnt from the pain?
are you better for it?
The answers are yes regardless.
so feel it,
embrace it and heal from it.
sympathize with those going through that phase
and don't invalidate their pain

Be and stay inspired!