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Seven Degrees Left of Center

by Dale Ricky

Rated: 13+ · Book · Personal · #2276168

Each day feels new, and my memory of the one before is faint. I’m learning to adapt.

In September 2019, a seizure revealed a lime-sized meningioma pressed against my hippocampus—the part of the brain that governs memory and language. The doctors said it was benign, but benign didn’t mean harmless.

Surgery removed the tumor, and three days later I opened my eyes to a new reality. I could walk, I could talk, but when I looked at my wife, her name was gone. I called her Precious—the only word I could find. A failure of memory, yet perhaps the truest name of all.

Recovery has been less cure than re-calibration. Memory gaps are frequent. Conversations vanish. I had to relearn how to write, letter by halting letter. My days are scaffold by alarms, notes, and calendars.

When people ask how I am, I don’t list symptoms or struggles. I simply say, “Seven Degrees Left of Center.” It’s not an answer—it’s who I’ve become.

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TeeGateM

Nov 7, 2025 at 9:11am
In response to "Too Many Projects, Too Little Brain Space"

The creative mind - yep me too!

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Kåre เลียม Enga

Nov 6, 2025 at 11:30am
In response to "Too Many Projects, Too Little Brain Space"

I'm like this when I'm home. When I'm traveling I'm barely aware of how much I'm neglecting my writing.

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JACE

Oct 30, 2025 at 10:44am
In response to "Finding North Again"

I can only imagine what you're going through with your surgery and that road to recovery. It sounds like recovery is more like a path through heavily forested woods, the path strewn with fallen limbs and leaves, and roots reaching up to trip you.

My own surgery (for kidney cancer) as traumatic enough, but while it preyed on my mind, it didn't 'play' with it. And I don't mean play in its kindest note.

Keep on writing. It may be all any of us really have. Best of luck with your recovery.

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Jim

Oct 20, 2025 at 9:50am
In response to "Lost in the Story I Already Wrote"

First, I love your Handle/Pen Name! Seven Degrees Left Of Center... Seeing your name just kind of made my day.

I think what you're going through is one of my biggest fears. Forgetting everything. I know, and hope you're doing better today than previous days, and that your memory is returning more and more each day. Losing your memory has to be a nightmare for you.

I can see you writing something that seems familiar, only to realize you've written this, or something very similar. I don't think I have a major memory loss, but I know I've started writing something only to learn I had already written, or something similar. Fortunately, it's usually something from long ago. Let's hope it doesn't get any worse for both of us, as we age.

Amethyst Autumn Angel

Oct 9, 2025 at 11:12am
In response to "Letting It Soak"

I believe all ideas should be scribbled down as soon as one feels they're worthwhile. Even if it never gets past the rough idea, at least you'll have a record of it for future reference.

Amethyst Autumn Angel

Oct 3, 2025 at 8:35am
In response to "Learning Curves: Then and Now"

Wow, that's news to be excited about

Sending prayers for continued improvement and recovery

Soldier_Mike

Sep 27, 2025 at 10:16am
In response to "Instant Coffee: Freeze-Dried Disappointment"

I completely understand the recalcitrant coffee pot situation and I, too, have swilled my share of hotel-based caffeine. That being said, don't let {suser:lilli_in_fl} catch you drinking it.

Amethyst Autumn Angel

Sep 25, 2025 at 10:51am
In response to "Rewired"

I have the same type of problem, Dale. My mind abounds with beautiful, emotional, action packed scenes, but I have no idea how to shape them together into a coherent story. It's like having bits of five different movies all chopped up and scrambled and missing the in-between parts. Just keep doing it

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Amethyst Autumn Angel

Sep 9, 2025 at 8:13am
In response to "Up too early"

I used to love waking up early in the morning when I was a kid... I'd sit up and greet the sunrise with the robins and recite poetry I'd memorized... Ahh, those were some peaceful times.

All the best!

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AmyJo-Where did 2025 go???

Aug 31, 2025 at 1:33pm
In response to "At some point, you call it done"

I enjoyed reading both versions. I did like the limited version more, and now I am hooked! So many questions now...

July 31, 2025 at 11:43am

#1094442

Influence and Encouragement

When you share your writing, it will influence those who read it to some degree. I mean, that is what writing is about, isn't it? The art of communicating influence?

Influence is a topic I am learning. What am I trying to influence in Seven Degrees Left of Center? The short sentence, "Encouragement to be patient in healing and brave in sharing the experience." However, that is starting to take on a different goal. After five years, my brain has recovered and adapted as much as it is going to.

My entries in this blog are mostly self-serving. I've been encouraging myself to keep writing. Now, I would like to encourage others to write and share their experiences. I know this blog doesn't get many views. But, if you are reading this, I encourage you to write with the knowledge that what you write and share will influence someone along the way.

It is scary to share thoughts and experiences. It is rewarding to know someone might be encouraged because of it.

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