This reminds me of a news story in my neck of the woods in the last couple years about a guy who went trick-or-treating for the first time in his early 30s. He actually had lots of fun while going from house to house. I personally don't think there should be an age limit on trick-or-treating, myself. Social norms are bizarre things to try to change, though.
Thanks everyone. My wife appreciates all the cares and comments. Maybe I'll be able to convince her to come hang here with us rather than on Facebook with her mom.
I hear you. Went through my own anniversaries of those lost last month and it knocked me out for two weeks straight before I could get my head around writing again.
Don't let guilt be one of the emotions. We feel what we feel. We remember, usually not when we'd like to, and often times, at the worst possible time.
I filled my time with memories- as many good ones as I could pack into my quiet time. I focused on watching the birds at the feeder outside my office window. Did the bare minimum at work. Tried to enjoy time with friends.
Eventually, it passed.
I've found that sometimes talking to them helps, even though they can't hear. Do the things that give you joy and peace, and most of all, forgive yourself for whatever wasn't done, wasn't said, or conversely, was. Let lavender winds ease your pain and remember, we're all here if you need us.
Precious gave me a scare today. I had to go to the store and my wife was home alone with the dogs. Usually that means the dogs chill on the bed with her for nap time. Today precious was nowhere to be found and she wouldn't even come to her for cheese. I was sure I was going to come home on corpse patrol and have to figure out what to do with her until I could get her cremated on Tuesday. But no she was just hiding out in the craft room on the twin bed we have for guests we got a memory foam mattress topper almost as thick as the mattress. I guess she just was more comfortable but she had us both freaked out.
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